Admitting there’s a problem…

Our first inclination in dealing with the memory loss issues of our loved one was to deny there was an issue.  From “oh they’re like that” to “that’s what happens with age” we had a hard time really admitting to ourselves there was a problem.  Also, our loved one had a similar inclination, pointing out that their friends all had memory issues and “there was nothing wrong with them.”

Don’t fall into the trap!  The sooner you recognize the problem, the sooner you can start to both treat it and prepare for the future.  Many memory related issues are treatable — but only if you recognize there’s a problem and do something about it!

Memory issues begins with small signs, that left untreated may grow more serious over time.  The important thing is to recognize the signs as early as possible, don’t find or make excuses for the behaviors.

There are some simply ways to recognize memory loss.  All of us experience moments of forgetfulness, but if you see signs repeatedly or these behaviors get worse, you’ll definitely want to start a conversation with your love one’s doctor.  Many of the treatments available are more effective is started sooner.  Click more below to see the signs you need to recognize.

Early signs of memory loss

• Forgetfulness – misplacing items, forgetting events, appointments, common words or names.
• Focus issues – failing to follow conversations or trouble accomplishing tasks (such as following a recipe, doing a bank transaction,  or using technology, difficulties following a TV program, movie or book.
• Finding their way around – difficulties with formerly familiar places
• Repeating the same thing – not remembering that something was just said recently or an idea or story was recently communicated.
• Decision making – having trouble making decisions, following directions, or planning tasks
• Feeling overwhelmed – especially with the prospect of carrying out common tasks such as fixing a meal, mailing a letter, paying bills, banking, etc.
• Changes in mood or affect – anything notably unusual such as irritability, anxiety, depression, unexplained anger, etc.

No one sign can give you a complete picture and many people will not display all of the signs.  Also, some people skip some of these signs and go straight to more serious signs (we’ll cover this in a later post).  If you start to see these signs, pay attention.  If they happen often, seek help.  The sooner you so, the better are the chance that you can do something about it.